Gifts of Love by Gerri Brousseau

I’m still thinking about Valentine’s Day and today I’m talking about the gifts of love.  When you think of this holiday, your thoughts go to candy given in a box shaped like a heart; red roses, which last week cost less than half the amount florist’s will charge for them on Valentine’s Day; a romantic dinner, with limited menus and unlimited prices; and greeting cards with prices that have skyrocketed over the years.  There are also gifts with a bigger price tag, such as necklaces featuring heart shapes, some with diamonds; diamond earrings, bracelets and, for those so inclined, the coveted engagement ring.

I started thinking of the way things were back in the day. What might be considered to be a romantic gift a gentleman might present to a woman in the 1700 or 1800?  Would he compose a poem for her or write a letter to her professing his love?  Would he present her with a bouquet of flowers, which he picked from his gardens.  Would he invite her for an afternoon stroll through the park, chaperoned, of course?  Would she be expected to present him with a gift?  Not likely.  Her company and undivided attention would have been a gift enough.  (Boy were those the days)

In reflecting back to a simpler time I started thinking about what types of heartfelt gifts might be appropriate today.  Everyone is so busy these days.  Most women work outside the home and juggle careers with being a wife and mother.  She most likely takes care of the home and cooks and cleans in addition to grocery shopping and attending parent-teacher meetings.  What gift would the busy woman of today truly appreciate?  I believe this modern day woman wants time for herself.  I bet she would probably love to have a manicure or pedicure, or perhaps a spa treatment.  I know money is tight these days, but wouldn’t our modern gal enjoy having dinner prepared for her one night?  Why not write a poem for her or compose a letter professing your love?  Perhaps she works from home, or is a writer and needs some at home quiet time.  If that’s the case, how about offering to take the kids to the park, for a walk or for a bike ride to afford her some alone and quiet time?  Do you think she would enjoy a foot massage?

Women, you can always plan a romantic evening with your man.  Even if you have been married or together forever, plan an evening of romance.  Surprise him with a love note in his briefcase, his favorite meal for dinner or by wearing some sexy lingerie.  Put some thought into planning an evening of spontaneous romance.

Gifts of love don’t have to be expensive or even come from a store.  Please share your ideas with us to help us make a truly romantic Valentine’s Day without breaking the bank.  What are you planning to give your significant other for Valentine’s Day?